tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post1656813516107878726..comments2023-04-04T07:19:11.537-07:00Comments on A Piece of the Pearsons: It is what it isChristyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04211125719068555386noreply@blogger.comBlogger14125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-36449598445967382652013-03-23T21:02:37.275-07:002013-03-23T21:02:37.275-07:00I am so sorry your doctor let you down in the wors...I am so sorry your doctor let you down in the worst possible way. I can relate to that so much. I'm sorry.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-41074752986686876282009-10-10T06:22:50.897-07:002009-10-10T06:22:50.897-07:00I think it sucks that our "friends" can ...I think it sucks that our "friends" can treat you so badly after such a loss. That these "friends" can't be more supportive. But really, they aren't your friends, they never were. I've lost someone who I thought was a very close friend. I learned that when she didn't come to L's funeral, when she didn't even acknoledge his loss, when she all but stopped talking to me that she never was a friend to begin with. If she was, she would have been there for me. She wasn't.<br /><br />Those people who left you hanging, who chose HIM over you guys, is the sad one. She is one who needs to look at her life and consider why she has the people in it she does. I know its hard to see the bad in people that thought were good, that you put so much in to. But it happens, people change, people use the wrong judgment. Just like friendships fall apart.<br /><br />Your "friends" suck.<br /><br />*hugs*Kristyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15134970929000997104noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-67102374788615263172009-10-09T13:58:10.257-07:002009-10-09T13:58:10.257-07:00Wow, thats really crappy of your "friends&quo...Wow, thats really crappy of your "friends" Loosing a child really does weed out the bad friends. I have a few who just refuse to speak to me now because the subject of my son makes them uncomfertable! How ridiculous is that? *Hugs*The Blue Sparrowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08196234778836756227noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-48532441680257596372009-10-07T05:52:06.100-07:002009-10-07T05:52:06.100-07:00I'm with Kristy, all the way! Now I know what...I'm with Kristy, all the way! Now I know what to get you for Christmas! :) And I'll just stop right there! love you!<br /><br />xxxxxxAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-824346628666947432009-10-07T00:48:42.054-07:002009-10-07T00:48:42.054-07:00Christy,
I am so sad you are hurting. I lost some...Christy,<br /><br />I am so sad you are hurting. I lost some friends too when my son passed away. I have never understood why people become walking brainfarts when faced with a serious situation in life. When did we as a society become so wrapped up inside of ourselves that we stopped knowing how to care or reach out to each other?<br />People can be walking brainfarts! Plain and simple! <br />You will lose some friends ( or people you thought were your friends) along the way but I PROMISE....you will also make new amazing friends as well!!!<br /><br />P.S. Might I suggest an airsoft gun for mom for Christmas?? I happen to know it is great for aggression....:)<br />Lots of hugs to you and the family!!<br />KristyKristyhttp://www.haveuseenmysanity.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-55300818381714369092009-10-06T06:17:07.928-07:002009-10-06T06:17:07.928-07:00Thanks to all of you...those comments were what I ...Thanks to all of you...those comments were what I needed. The support I needed....as mental as it may be, it's better than physically being here in the midst of all this.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04211125719068555386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-22222888166951519992009-10-05T21:34:38.565-07:002009-10-05T21:34:38.565-07:00I am sorry you have to deal with that. It just is...I am sorry you have to deal with that. It just isn't fair to have to be hurt by them while suffering from losing your sweet Chase. <br />xx<br />P.S....We've got your back:)Tinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15149337445828424583noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-62242355273647133442009-10-05T21:30:12.029-07:002009-10-05T21:30:12.029-07:00oh Christy, how painful and horrid. I wish with al...oh Christy, how painful and horrid. I wish with all my heart I was closer so I could support you and be a real "in the flesh" friend!<br /><br />I understand COMPLETELY what you have said....wish there was something I could do for you...!<br /><br />thinking of you and wishing away this pain for youxxSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09376745816724454549noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-84127540529446226112009-10-05T13:28:50.992-07:002009-10-05T13:28:50.992-07:00I find it ridiculous that your "friends"...I find it ridiculous that your "friends" are acting like nothing happened. It's disgusting that in a time when we NEED friends, most seem to fall away. Makes you wonder if people really know what being a true friend really is.Hollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15431384515813384025noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-68627700891790235272009-10-05T11:22:51.431-07:002009-10-05T11:22:51.431-07:00Oh, that feels like such a betrayal. I'm sorr...Oh, that feels like such a betrayal. I'm sorry your friends aren't showing you more empathy. It really hurts when people don't want to ruffle any feathers, at the expense of hurting their friends. Wishing you some peace today.Juliethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04998024692657131803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-32591869126386549332009-10-05T07:15:08.519-07:002009-10-05T07:15:08.519-07:00I find that the hardest part is trying to live in ...I find that the hardest part is trying to live in a world where people just don't get it. No one understands what it's like to lose a child. No one understands how much it hurts every moment of every day. No on understands how hard it is to go on when you are exhausted (both physically and emotionally). <br /><br />You are walking a path with people that understand. We will hold your hand and lead you to the "blue sky". I am a year ahead of you on this journey. It does get better. It's still hard. But not nearly as hard as it was a year ago.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />TrishaTrisha Larsonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02426915708825675793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-49173306505863690102009-10-05T06:23:55.020-07:002009-10-05T06:23:55.020-07:00I don't think they were/are doing this on purp...I don't think they were/are doing this on purpose. They probably even thought they were supporting me...Truth is they just don't get it.Christyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04211125719068555386noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-83786368491367839912009-10-04T23:45:11.883-07:002009-10-04T23:45:11.883-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3039413529593217367.post-52412720088081568642009-10-04T21:47:48.766-07:002009-10-04T21:47:48.766-07:00Wow how shitty is that??! I'm so sorry your fr...Wow how shitty is that??! I'm so sorry your friends are being ridiculous. I guess if they let themselves blame your doctor it would make it "real" for them. Too bad it's our reality everyday for the rest of our lives. I can't believe people can so quickly dismiss a life. A little tiny helpless life at that. Maybe it's because they never got to see and hold that life. But there's still no excuse. And you're right, you only need people in your life who can support you fully and who have their priorities straight. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. <br />((hugs))<br />AshleyMackenzie's Mommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16362223048159041632noreply@blogger.com